Teens: i don't get why ??? advice/details please?

ohhkaay so i broke up with


my ex like months ago.


he cheated and all that.





and so now i hear he's still


talking mess about me to his


friends or whatever.


[like nasty/bad stuff about me]


i never did anything to him for


him to even be poppin off at the


mouth.





at first it was hard getting over


him but now i can finally say that


i am over him





but i don't get why my name keeps


coming out his mouth and


i don't even talk about himTeens: i don't get why ??? advice/details please?
You what I don't get?





When people don't like someone or something why bother talk about it? Like people who don't like Hannah Montana/miley cyrus why is they talk about how much they don't like her? If you don't like her don't talk about her, right? Makes me wonder if they secretly like her yet play it up like they don't.





The same goes for ex boyfriends/ ex girls friends. I honestly wonder if they still in some way do like their ex yet talk tough like they don't like them.





I know it's crazy and it doesn't make sense. It's annoying too.





As for you and your ex are teens. Teens often when dating fully don't understand love and stuff like that. Even adults have trouble with love. Look at all the divorces these days. Love can hurt.





The best advice I can suggest is if you hear gossip or bad stuff your ex has said about you try to let it go. Remind yourself he is just trying act all big and cool so others won't see his pain.





Also remind yourself you are over him and moving on. ; )Teens: i don't get why ??? advice/details please?
my ex did that to me, and he still does even though we broke up 3 years ago. my fiance told me he does that cause he is telling himself the bad things about you, basically he is trying to convince himself that he doesn't like you anymore. so basically he still likes you hun. so don't worry about boys like him. they're normally jerks.
He's not over you and wants you back but doesn't know how to tell you that. Just ignore, he's not worth it.