I need some advice from you parents,teens,grandparents etc....?

I'm tired of the crap my parents and siblings put me through. I'm 16. My brother is 14, and my sister is 13. Well, the problem is my parents seem to favor my siblings over me. I have to do chore like dishes, cleaning the bathroom, the catbox,and other crap my sibs don't have to do. My brother used to do the catbox, but now I'm doing it. My brother and sister never have to do chores and my parents pay more attention to them then they do me. I got pissed at my sister because she was bugging me and saying stuff to egg me on. I pushed her and hit her. I didn't leave any marks on her at all. My sister scratched the crap out of me and it left a deep mark just above my left boob. My dad threatened to call the cops next time I hit or touched my sister. He would charge me with assault and battery. My sister was just told to leave me alone and that was it. My brother and sister never get disciplined, but I do. I am good to my siblings. I always make sure their birthdays and Christmas are good. They do stuff for me on my birthday. I'm good to my parents. I always try to make their holidays awesome(Mothers Day,birthdays,fathers day,Christmas). I'm a really good kid, but when my brother and sister get my anger to a certain pint, I will slap them or hit them. My parents said I could to them if my siblings are being a pain, bu when I do I get yelled at and in trouble.





Any advice?I need some advice from you parents,teens,grandparents etc....?
1) Why are you doing all the chores, why was your brother told he didn't have to do it?


2) Did you hit your sister first?


You sound very like my eldest daughter, who at times gets very angry for no reason at all. It's been hard, but we're getting to the point where she now realises that her behaviour is unreasonable.


Are you over sensitive to your siblings? Do you criticize them a lot?


You might be a very good kid, but if you are abusive then it wipes out all the good things you do.


As a parent, I want to live in a house where my kids get on and are happy. My oldest daughter seems to make this impossible at times - and she blames her sister for ';winding me up';. She doesn't understand that actually she is at fault, for allowing such small things to wind her up.


Anyway, if I were your parents I would do a couple of things:


I'd lay down the law about hitting. If you hit your sister, she should be allowed compensation ie taking anything from you that she wants.


You'd soon learn to control your temper when it means losing your favourite things.


b) I'd try putting you on something like St John's Wort. Your anger might be hormonal - this is something you have to learn to control, bt at the same time, you might need a bit of help.


Keep a diary of when you are at your most stressed. And learn to work with your body, learn when you are at your most vulnerable and avoid issues. Once you are aware of what the problem could be, your understanding will help you.


You need to lighten up, not take anything so personally. Develop a sense of humour, if your sister starts winding you up, laugh at it. Turn it into a joke or downgrade it. Shake your head, smile sadly, walk away. That kind of thing.


Good luck.I need some advice from you parents,teens,grandparents etc....?
Sweetie, I'm sorry your parent's are treating you like that!


There is no reason for that at all!!!! Is your Grandparents around? You could talk to them about it, and ask if they could talk to your mom and dad about it.








Good Luck and God Bless Sweetie!
well, until you stop acting like a 2 year old who doesn't have a better way of expressing yourself other than hitting or slapping, don't expect them to treat you any differently. you're 16, time to grow up.
All siblings are a pain! My five year old and three year old get jealous of each other! It's normal. You are acting a little imature too!
you should ask this 14 more times