Advice to young adults (formally known as teens) easy points!?

So there is this boy. (like always) He has always been a friend of mine. He is my cousin by marriage cousin (sounds gross but we are not related)...if that makes any sense at all. He is super funny and sweet and we have been friends for a while now. Like I always joke around with him and he teases back.





Despite the fact that we never really had that type of chemistry, well I didn't at the beginning. I've known he always had a thing for my cousin Cindy (who is like a sister to me) So I never really liked him in that way.





He is totally jealous that Cindy has a bf and what not but he just a got a girl friend (3 days ago). Which I didn't know when I found out all of a sudden I felt devastated and found out that maybe I had feelings for him all along but just never thought about it because he liked my cousin all this time.


(By the way my cousin is gorgeous) I feel totally sad about it, I told my cousin Cindy and she was like you should of told him earlier and what not, but the fact is I didn't because I didn't know.








Has anyone been in a similar situation?





Is this a like not even worth it because everyone thinks he still likes my cousin despite the fact he has a gf. I mean who would want to be with someone who is in love with basically your cousin.





Also is there anything I can do, advice please.








Thanks for the adcive.





No thumbs down unless your are just being rude.Advice to young adults (formally known as teens) easy points!?
I had an elementary school crush that lasted all the way up to 9th grade!! Then I realized she wasn't really that nice of a person. Well, after that I started to have feelings for a good friend of mine as well, and I thought it was the first crush I had for such a long time that covered up my true feelings for this girl.





I never knew it, but my friend actually knew I liked her all along. I didn't tell anyone, she just knew :).





Let him chase you a bit. Show interest in other guys and see how he reacts.Advice to young adults (formally known as teens) easy points!?
Im taking the fact that he is your cousin by marriage out of the picture!


If he has a gf leve it alne stay his friend and if he likes you later on you'll get him!


If he likes your cousin and hes dating you,i bet you would start to think that hes using you!


Jus dont tell him yet!


Wait till him and his gf break up then tell him wen hes down!


Try it!
thats weird