I'm going to a group for gay teens from ages 13-18. (NEED ADVICE)?

Okay i'm going to this gay group thing that my mom is bringing me to no matter what i say. My self -esteem is quite low but i put off quite a confident air, if that makes sense to you. I wanted to know, from all you other gays out there, if when you were my age (14) was the gay thing all about sex and looks or about actual personality? I'm looking for love, but I hear all the time that even later in life gays are all about looking gorgeous and sex, when that simply isn't me. I dont' want to fall into this stereotype, and i'm afraid of what's gonna heppen at the gay group. please give me some insight.I'm going to a group for gay teens from ages 13-18. (NEED ADVICE)?
Well, I'm bi, and I'm a bit older than 14, but for me it's always been about personality. Sure, looks might draw you to someone at first, but it's what's in their heart that makes you stay... or what isn't there that makes you leave.


The gay population is the same as any population, there are some that are going to be huge sluts and want to get with anything that's got something between their legs, sure, but most of them aren't like that at all...


Thinking that gays are all about sex is like thinking that all blondes are dumb, or that all jocks are assholes or whatever.I'm going to a group for gay teens from ages 13-18. (NEED ADVICE)?
I say go for it! you're only 14 and surely enough, you will go through bumps along the road but probably end up with what you want. If you set your morals before going into this camp and promising yourself that you won't fall into this typical gay stereotype, then you will be fine! i'm 15 and im not at all into sex. I really like connecting with people on a deeper level emotionally before i can get into those casual sexual contacts (kissing). Don't follow the crowd! Lead it. GOOD LUCK %26lt;3
Both are true. I've always tried to do the best I could with what I have -- to do otherwise is to fail the self whether gay or straight. At the same time, I've had deep and enduring relationships WITH LOTS OF SEX. My partner and I have been together 17 years now, but when I was young, I had lots of sex with friends -- I see nothing wrong with either. Relax, gain actual self-esteem for the person you are, and enjoy your life in all the ways available.





Kind thoughts,





hermes
The key thing is that YOU are in control. Never feel pressured to doing anything you don't feel comfortable doing.





Yes many gay guys have lots of sex. And why not - its enjoyable, healthy, and doesn't make you fat (unlike chocolate or hamburgers).





But others don't do lots of sex.
That's all about: stereoptype. Do not feel guilty about how you are. Not all gay people is sex and looks. You can be different as many others. As I said... it is a stereotype.
Refuse to go. Just say you're not ready.





Your Mom is abusing you.





Why is she so keen for you to be gay? Something wrong there I think.
I WOULD FREAKING BE SCARED.





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