Saturday, July 31, 2010

Any moms or teens i need ur help i need advice!!!?

ok i like this boy ricky and he likes me we are going to the 8th grade dance together [ he is going to ask me out there i can't wait!!!] and he is all i can think about , my problem is that my mom is being so unsporting this will be my soon to be FIRST bf and she was not even happy or excited when i told her this news she atomically started popping off like '; you know he cant come over here'; [ my sis boyfriend comes over why not mine] and '; you know u cant go out with him on a date'; [ even with a parent] i don't know what to do i am very responsible and i no she can trust me but maybe it is because i am the youngest and my only sis is the oldest {she is 15 almost 16 i am 14] what should i do i need advice please!!!


-thanksAny moms or teens i need ur help i need advice!!!?
What are the rules on dating at your house? Parents set these rules up for reasons. They may not be the same reasons/parameters that other parents use, but there are reasons. Your mother may just be reminding you not to get too excited, because, she is not planning on bending the rules for you. If that is the case, you need to try to respect that, If your sister is only a year or two older than you, then you are not far from the age where it is ok, correct? If that is the case, then try to relax, and wait it out. I know that you are excited about this boy, but your mother is really trying to protect her little girl. If you want to be boyfriend/girlfriend, then do so within the parameters that your parents have set. Don't break the rules with this guy. Your parents will find out, and you will lose all the trust that you have gained over the years. Try to remember that there are other parents out there stricter than yours. Some girls aren't allowed to go to school dances.Any moms or teens i need ur help i need advice!!!?
tell ur mom ur responsible she probaly trusts u but not the guy good luck

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