im only 13 and i have pregnancy symptoms like morning sickness and soreness of the tatas and im gaining a little more weight and i feel bloated all the time and if i buy a preggers test my parents are going to find out and idk where the clinics are in my area what should i doTeen pregnancy advice?
Hi :-) I'm 15 and pregnant and I can help you.
First of all, you should buy a pregnancy test. Have an older friend buy it for you or do it yourself. Go to some friend's house to have the test. You can also have it at home but you have to throw it away, so your parents won't see it. The house trash is not a good idea, as you can assume.
Second, if you are pregnant, you will have to go to the doctor and, sorry to say this but - you will have to tell your parents. They should know. At first they will be yelling, you know - ';bla-bla-bla...how could you do that...bla-bla-bla...grounded...';. That attitude will be over in a few weeks. Next, your parents will start making a room for the baby and advise you on raising a child. they may want to give the baby for adoption or even abort it. don't agree any of these! It's an awful feeling to kill your child and it's even awfuller to have it alive somewhere not knowing if someone cares for him/her or they are alone in the world.
Third - I'd like to be your friend and help you through all this. Feel free to email me if you need a friend in the same situation :-) My email is eeniemeen@yahoo.comTeen pregnancy advice?
Ignore that other post, she/he is an itiot.
You can got o the dollar store and buy a pregnancy test. They are accurate. You can also try a planned pregnancy center in your area. Go online and type in ';pregnancy testing in (your city goes here)'; and it will bring up results in your area. These places I don't think you need to have a parent with you. They can also help you with adoption if you choose to go that route. Hope i was at eats a little helpful :)
You can either get a pregnancy test, or wait to see if something comes out in 8-9 months. Either way sounds like you need to have a talk with your parents because there is no way a 13 yr old can handle it alone. If it's just a scare, then I would really consider halting the sex life until you're at an age where you can handle it. It's not a game.
Hun, going around unsure isn't going to help anything. If you think you may be pregnant, you need to get a test, see if you can go to a friends house so your parents won't find out. But if you are, they're going to have to know eventually. Once it's out in the open, it's a lot easier.
If you need to find a clinic, try going to the Plannned Parenthood website and searching your zip code.
If you need any more advise, there's a great site that helps teen parents. It's standupgirl.com. There's tons of great people to talk with, as well as lots of advise.
if you are pregnant you need to find out so you can get the care that both you and your baby needs, go to the doctors they are not allowed to tell your parents what is going on its patient confidentiality, but could it be your period, i had the same thing and tests showed up i wasnt pregnant,
good luck,
First of all, you shouldn't be here asking these type of questions, because you shouldn't be having SEX! You should be studying and doing homework. For goodness sakes you're only 13! You should really talk to your parents or to your counselor at school. Little girl you need help, no matter what decision you make, you need an adult (21%26amp;over) to help you out.
tell some one soon like ur mom i had a baby at 14 so i know how u feel but u need to take care of ur self and if ur preggers u need to take care of ur baby
DON'T get an abortaion its painful for u and it kills the baby u will never forgive yourself.....first....did u even have sex?? second ...tell ur parents!! they will prob be mad but they should be there for u if u are even pregnant
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