Tuesday, November 22, 2011

HELP! teen friend advice needed?

theres a lot of people i want to be friends with in my school but i dont know them or speak to them, i only see them in the halls. how do start up a convo and get a friendship going without looking like a total nerd?HELP! teen friend advice needed?
SmileHELP! teen friend advice needed?
do any of your friends know these people? if they do, then you have a fantastic atvantage. if you don't then try something simple, lik asking what class they have a certain period, or making a date for luch, or hey just sit down where they sit and ask about pets, or homework, or just pull something out of thin air. dont be afriad to talk to them because u r scared of looking stupid. the worst thing that could happen is them not likeing you at first sentence. give it time, if they really would be a good person and a good friend, then they will give you the chance. if not, they aren't worth it. if you need more advice, email me (im not a guy im this guys sister) at avrilgirl1134@yahoo.com


hope this helps!!!
Say something like nice (example: I like that shirt or man, this teach is so boring) and afterwards just keep the words going and start a converstaion but you do have to realize that that person may not want to be friends with you let me know how everything goes -Bye Bye
hey do you guys have a myspace? if you do then you should add them as friends and leave them little comments. maybe throughout all this you would become more familiar with each other and actually strike up conversation in the halls. It works for me!
Forget about all those teen movies. It may sound hard but you really just have to talk to them. Hey whats up, Whats going on. Bring up school work or comment on clothing. Jusst dont second guess yourself, if you do you will come across as nervous or weak. Everyone wants to be around confident people. Even if your not just fake it. It worked for me.
say something like';Hey how are you?i like your shirt whered ya get it?';If they wanna be your friend theyll answer and ask you questions too.


i f they dont like then theyll just say a quick answer then leave or they will just ignore you.
WOW...u can be my friend
Find something that they are interested in and talk to them about that. Like if they like basketball, talk to them about your favorite team, or the game you saw yesterday. Or just like always, How are you, is a great conversation starter. Also, whats up?, things like that. Or ask to borrow a pencil, pen or whatever. Just make conversation out of stupid things and just don't think, do.
just to smile and start to be friendly!





...Gud luck babe!
easy walk up to them and say hey guys wazzup
You should probably try making friends with people in your classes. At least then you'd have something in common to strike up a conversation about.


Hmm but in the halls I suppose you could always smile and say you like their shoes or something...ask them where they shop..etc..
As that state in position just say hi and how r u and wat have u been doing and then soon you will have friendships or wat ever ur looking 4
Be a joiner. Join in after school activities, clubs, sports teams, cheerleader squad.


Take your time, be patient, in only a few weeks you'll be popular.
Compliment them, wait for a moment to pitch in a line, like if they are talkin about somethin like for instance say they say ';did you see that episode where such and such slapped such and such'; and you reply somethin like yeha that was funny. Start up stuff like that..
I face this problem too.





Step one:


Smile.





Step two:


Get there attention. You need to be confident in yourself for it to work. So try not to be worried.





Step three:


Remember they aren't better then you. They're just people. Just say 'hey'. Or like ';i like your shoes'; Something simple will do it.
well i had the same exact problem as you at the beginning of the school year and now I'm Friends with like everyone what i did was like outside the classroom door or whatever i would be like hey whats your name they'd tell me and id be like oh I'm (your name) then just say something like are you new here and he/she will answer then most likely start up another conversation if not just give it time like lets say you don't talk again until the next day then you could be like sorry whats your name again i forgot then after he/she tells you once again start talking then like Right before lunch be like do you care if i sit with you and if she/he says yes then at lunch walk with them or meet their and sit with them don't be shy to talk to their Friends too get involved now if he/she says no then you could just be like oh OK well I'll see you later then just start talking to any other personal random and follow the same step's and don't worry eventually you'll find someone to hang out with and it might not be the 1st day but eventually and once you start talking to one person talk to their Friends to that's why i said don't be shy to get involve at first i was but i learned to get over it.





Well i hope i helped you and i hope you follow the advice I've given and remember never give up well i got to go for now thanks for reading good bye and have a nice day.

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