Teen advice for Daughter that has a crush on this boy?

so my daughter has been asking me for advice and i really dont know what to tell her? it all started 6 months ago when my daughter started going to a Karate class this boy helped her out alot and i noticed the boy was really into her and i noticed but never said anything it was like he liked her and my husband noticed him too anyway she quit after 2 months because she didnt like it .last week we were at a mall and she noticed him with some boys and im like look samantha look who it is and he came all the way from where he was to give her a hug and say hi. well we let them talk they exchanged numbers and now they text and talk the thing is samantha tells us he told her he has a girlfriend but he tells my daughter he is starting to like her but when my daughter texts him he takes a long time to answer and samantha tells him i really dont know if i like you back because i dont like the fact that your talking to me behind your girlfriends back he looks like a good kid but drives my daughter nuts with the girlfriend thing and he takes long to answer her and stufff....what can i tell my daughter about him? what could be on his mind?


he looks like a good boy he has a part time job he looks like a gentleman and we could tell he liked my daughter since then but in the meantime he got a girlfriend he tell my daughter tell me if your likw me and ill talk to my girlfriend but my daughter is still optomistic about him already having a girlfriend i tell samantha well atleast he didnt like to you that he had a girlfriend..Teen advice for Daughter that has a crush on this boy?
Honestly I would tell her to just leave him alone. I'm 15 and from personal experience I can truly say it's not worth it to have a bf when you're a teen. Just explain to her that it's wrong to be taking to someone that already has a gf. She has expressed that it irritates her, thats a good thing. She has good instincts. I persnally would tell her it's best she just let's him go and moves on. There are other guys. Thats just my opinion. Just remember that just because he looks like a good guy does not mean he is. If you do let her date him presuming he breaks up with his gf, then be cautious. If he's willing to talk to her when he has a gf then he will do the same thing to her. Just tell her to be careful.Teen advice for Daughter that has a crush on this boy?
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tell her only be his friend while he is dating his girlfriend. Don't be the one to break them up. If he still is dating his girlfriend he doesnt truley like her/
if he has a girl, tell your daughter to leave him alone. she could really cause problems for someone.
I think you should tell your daughter, that maybe she needs to stop worrying. Tell him how you feel, trying to be coy or not wanting to say something dumb really is a waste of time. If she tells him that she likes him, then he'll be able to decide whether to stay with his current girlfriend or leave her for Samantha. Really it's time to get things moving!
well if he is trying to cheat on his gf then he is not really a gud bf matireial bucuz he might hav the potential to hurt ur duaghter too
tell her that guys will be guys. they take long to answer cuz they like to make you wait. or because they are doing something. i mean, most guys dont have their phone with them 24/7.


and the girlfriend thing, im not sure about. dont ever say ';i dont know if i like you back'; cuz u seem needy and clingy and ****. tell her to take a long time to text him back or to not text back in the middle of a convo. itll drive him crazy! and he will be wondering why you arent texting back, etc. and itll make him want her more :) and yah, it would be way different if he told her he was single. honesty is always good