I know what you mean dude. When I was young I am so shy to girls that I dont even know what to say to them. I want you to look at yourself in the mirror and say how unique you are from the others. You shouldn't be shy in the first place because not everyone is perfect! every girl that you see in this world has their own impurities and flaws. So you shouldnt worry that much about yourself because you are human just as what the others are. goodluck man!Advice for teen guy trying to overcome shyness?
What always helps me get over the awkward silences is to be genuinely more interested in the other person than in myself.
It's actually easier than it sounds, especially if you're not so much into talking yourself.
I ask them lots of questions about themselves and their interests and I listen as carefully as I can. I also try to keep an open mind and not be too judgmental.
Another thing I do is I don't try to be perfect. Trust me, I've learned the hard way that if you try to come across as if you've got it all together, people won't feel comfortable around you
and you end up alone...
But if you can laugh at yourself and your mistakes as if they're no big deal, you make others feel accepted and happy to be around you!
What would you think if someone were to come up to you
and ask about all of the things that were important to you?
What if they really cared about you had to say?
How would that make you feel?
Exactly...
Everyone has something special to show us or teach us.
This is why we stereotype each other;
because we're actually afraid of what would happen if we broke down those walls and decided to just love others, without inhibitions, regardless of our fear, jealousy, or pride.
I know you were referring only to shyness around girls but shyness to me is all the same, and I think this will help with both genders.
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My advice.... talk to them, thats all :-) Practice makes perfect!!! You could start with the girls you don't like very much, and then work your way up. If its confidence issues you have, think of all the hings that makes you.... well, you :-). Everyone is different, so you have to have some quality no one else has. Its better to talk to someone about the things You like, b/c then conversation wont be forced. So find a girl you have something in common with.Wether its just the fact you live in the same neighborhood. Good Luck!!!
Ok well since your shy just ask questions, then you dont have to say much all you have to do is listen and girls like a guy who will listen. she may ask you a question back so you awnser and it gets eaiser. You will become less and less shy. Really try to relax and make it liek your talking to your guy friends.
good luck
Don`t be afraid ot be yourself. And show a girl you have confidence- thats a good thing to have, but then don`t be cocky. Smile, and maybe you`ll see it is okay, nothing is going to happen. If you think positive, then you`ll be okay. Just don`t worry, if you`re worried, she can tell. Be confident and yourself. :)
I'd say treat the girls as you treat everyone else (like guy friends). Act as you normally would and don't be too self-conscious about what they're going to think of you. It's impossible to please everyone so just be yourself and they'll either like you or not. :)
im just copying and pastin this to get points, i know i know, your thinkin..........';how brilliant of a human being, y didnt i think of it b-4';
or your giving me a thumbs down. right about.......NOW!
well shy guy just try to be yourself. girls like guys that seem comfortable in their own skin.
Just be yourself... i am sure you will and the girl will realize your a nice person..
stop thinking their only used for sexual intercourse.
i need points
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