Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do i ask her..............?(teen advice)?

I'm 14 and over the summer i met this girl whos 13 and who was just visiting her cousin. A couple months ago she just moved in near where lived. She use to like my best friend but doesnt anymore. I told her that I liked her and after awhile she said she liked me too. and i really want to ask her out. Now heres the problems I'm having with that: 1)When ever we hang out there's always long awkward silences and then we both have trouble thinking of something else to say 2)Sometimes when we do talk I say something stupid(or at least I think it's stupid)and it just makes things more awkward 3) We can always talk better on IM than in person 4)I think it just might be me but at sometimes I get the feeling that she might not like me anymore 5)If I did ask her out where would I take her 6)Our parents say that the both of us can't really hang out alone till they meet each other 7)And if i did go out with her, I think it might be just as awkward for us as when we hang out. What do I do?How do i ask her..............?(teen advice)?
Well.. If you really like her like you say you do, you'd definitely With the long awkward silences, maybe you should talk about. Talk about how when you guys hang out there would be the long awkward silences and how maybe you should stop that,I had a friend that i hadn't talked to in years and then we starte IMing and we were really talking,but then we met and there were these long awkward silences but then i pointed that out and we ended up laughing it off.When you talk, speak what your heart tells you. Try to stay true to yourself,just say whatever your heart tells you to say. If she thinks what your heart tells you is stupid, then let her go, maybe she's not the one for you. The best way to hang out when you're rather awkward is probably at home,order some chinese take-out and watch a movie that both of you love.That way,the awkwardness would probably lessen since you guys are watching a movie,and since it's at home,she can probably meet and get to know your parents.


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*michelleHow do i ask her..............?(teen advice)?
boy,,,,that's normal..


you know....you haven't got to know each other well yet..


hmmm....you have to undergo some stages before you can deal wiht her smoothly..


just be yourself........be humorous enough to catch her attention or to make your conversation interesting.......


be confident.i think you're just that shy to start something...and she's of shy type,too.......so as the boy...its your task to mention some interesting topics when you hang out....just be a MAN not just a GUY........
ok.. i have saw this question asked loads of time on here n i always give the same answer!! your younge you dont need to be worrying about a girl!! your only 14 go play sum football and hang with friends instead of worrying!! you have the rest of your life to do that lol xx
Ask her over to your house and rent a movie. Then you can talk about what you're are watching.





Do not worry about silence between you some of the time. Part of having a good friendship is being comfortable with someone, and you don't have to have a constant stream of chatter. Being quite and feeling comfortable with the quite is a good thing.
you know that you like her and still feel a bit shy so maybe she is the same she likes you that's why she is shy around you !


take her to the movies then you don't really have to talk much and still have a good time !
Ok. Don't be nervous, if ever she ends up not liking u, thats okay cause there are thousands of more girls out there. Just be yourself how you are with your friends. Tell jokes, ask stuff

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