If you teen daughter was cutting herself, how wou`ld you want her to tell you?
My mother suspects of it sometimes but she never looks close enough, im sick of hiding after 2 years and its time to stop even though I dont want to.Advice from a parent to a hurt teen?
i cut too, its so hard stop and even to just tell someone, ou are so brave for even thinking about telling her, maybe write a letter so she reads it and understands why i made this video on youtube to help people understand just ask you mum to watch it and tell her thats what you rgoing through
good luck you are so brave hopefully one day i will be able to do this, XX
http://youtube.com/watch?v=yfTKAOZMAMMAdvice from a parent to a hurt teen?
I would try and tell her in some discreet way, just like having a casual confiscation, and when you hear the right word, or sentence, you will know, (or should know), and then one way or another just slip it in to the confiscation. you can either tell the truth straight tout, but if you not sure about that, you can, do what I do, (what I call going round the houses, as to try and not hurt her too much, in what you are doing), exaggerate, stretch, or, bend the truth, as long as the truth is in your conversation one way or another, and you could maybe try and show her, by taking off any armbands, bracelets, or any othe covering that you might have over it, and slowly out stretch your arm and show her, and when she See's it, you'll just have to say ';Sorry';, that you did it, and still doing it, and also tell her why, you are doing it, and tell her, you will try and stop, also show her from time to time, that you are trying to stop, because, if you don't stop, she, might, doubt it though, but just might, just try and get you some professional help, so you have to show her that you are trying to stop, and must for your-own Health...
I just ask, how old are you., just wondering...
there is a reason u are cutting yourself. telling your mom may help. but u need to find a different way to let out your emotions other then cutting yourself. (I'm a mom of three) if u cant tell her face to face wright a letter sometimes its easier. but she will be happy u told her.
omg. just tell her. she needs to know. especially if ur ready to tell her...just do it. i would say........mom, i have to tell u something that u wont like..but i need ur help...and i need to stop............then let her talk.
email her the link to kateeliz's video and sign it, with love ~
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