I am a Pregnant teen. Advice?

I am 14 years old and just found out I am pregnant by my 15 year old boyfriend. I am so scared and do not know what to do. Please help and give me ideas. Don't be mean, it was a big mistake.I am a Pregnant teen. Advice?
Honestly..if you nor your bf want the baby..the best advice anyone could give you is to give it to a family who can raise it better...if you choose to keep the baby its going to be alot of work..I am a 25 yr old married woman and I find it hard enough..I completed college..and everything is still hard..You will have to do alot of work..give up alot in your life but when you lay down without protection you run that risk and obviously you chanced it and it is happening to you..best thing you can do is ask for the help of your family and his if you intend to keep the baby..at 14 you are not even old enough to work enough hours to care for it properly..I am a Pregnant teen. Advice?
Don't be scared. Everything will be okay. What I'd suggest to do first is talk to your mom/dad. Let them know because now thats it done, don't look back at the mistake you made. Learn from it and move forward. Focus your attention on your baby and you. Once you tell your parents, get yourself to a doctor. Regardless of whether you keep the baby or not start looking after what you put in your body food-wise. Start being healthy because if this child is brought into this world, you want him/her to be healthy. Your parents will be mad at first but don't let that get to you. You should have your boyfriend talk to his parents also. Worrying is just a waste of time, i know its hard but you have to be proactive here.





Hope all goes well with you
Yes you should be scared, I'm 38 and just had my fourth, i am scared. no matter if your 14 or 40. the choice is yours to make for the next step in your life..whatever choice you make it will be the best one for you..good luck
Tell your mom even though she will be upset at first I think she would pull around and help out because its her child and grandchild.Make sure you and your boyfriend have atleast part time jobs and work as much as you can in the summer time...while still finishing school. Do not drop out of school. It is hard to find a job these days without a diploma. It will be hard having a kid at that age but it will pull through even though it may take alot of time and patience. But be sure to talk to your parents if you allready havnt.They should and will always be by your side even when you make mistakes.
Honey, I am 14 and have never even kissed anyone before! It's a shame that you didn't realize it was a mistake before you went and had sex. Now this will stay with you for the rest of your life. First, you need to tell your parents. No matter what, they will always love you, and they will help you get through this. Next, go to a doctor. Find out if the baby and you are safe and healthy. I advise that you don't get an abortion. I am 100% pro-choice, but if you don't wnat the child, give it to adoption. But the best thing anyone can give you is love, so just go to your parents! And I'd get rid of the bf, too. If he pressured you into having sex at such a young age, he's not worth it! Best of luck to you!
well i was 15 when i got pregnant now im 16 and i was scared at first but now that im almost there i am ready to become a mom and i was really scared to tell my mom but after i did she was behind me 100% percent and she still is and people understand that mistakes happen its going to be ok...make an appointment with a ob/gyn and they will get you threw if your going to keep the baby but also think about your options: abortion(i would never consider that though you can be a good parent if you want to), adoption, or keep
I am 25. I found out i was pregnant with my first child when i was only 13. It's very scary! There will be a lot of people especially family members who try to tell you what to do.


The first thing you have to remember ';Your Body Your Choice'; Do not let anyone talk you into doing anything that doesn't feel right to you. I won't say don't get an abortion. But i will say that adoption is such a better choice if you do not feel like you can keep the baby. There are so many couples who have been trying for years to become parents. They may be able to offer your child things that you can not. However, this choice is something that has to be thought about and it has to be right for you!! Here is my story i hope it helps.


http://www.testriffic.com/story/jayzmeg8鈥?/a>


You need to know the road is long and hard. But you will never regret the decision you make as long as you follow your heart!!


Best of Luck
its entirely up to you what u want to do but i fell pregnant at 14 and decided to keep the baby and i dont regret it at all . the hardest thing to do is telling your parents god i was so scared but they cant do anything about it apart from tell you how stupid you are but i will tell you that it is very hard to look after a baby and it does take away your freedom so i would consider that before you decide x
a big mistake.


that you cant take back now ,all i can say is be true to yourself and dont worry about the nasty things people will have to say ok.
You need to tell your parents as scary as that is (im 17 and 5mnths pregnant). But believe it or not they will be more worried about your health and the babies that being mad at you. It is their grandchild after all. You and your boyfriend should sit down with each of your parents (separatly telling both your parents and his at the same time will be too much) and they will be upset at first but eventually everybody ends up just being excited about the baby. And you need to get your doctors appts scheduled if your planning on going through the pregnancy.
At your age I think you should consider giving your baby up for adoption. You can't even legally work, let alone work full time, which is what it would take to support the child. If you love the baby, give it to someone who can give it the life it deserves and work hard toward having a good future for yourself so you have a life to be proud of. Consider open adoption so you can see how your child is growing and changing, and you can someday explain to them all that you went through.
You definitely need to go talk to your mother about this. She can, more than likely, give you better advice than anyone here.


She will eventually find out anyway so telling her as early as possible will help her help you with your options.


She will probably be upset and disappointed but she will love you no less.
tell ur parents, babies r never a ';big mistake'; and just never have sex until ur married. good luck! :)