So the school I go to is really small and everyone knows everyone pretty much. But everyone in my grade and stuff is into drinking and partying and I'm not. I've had friend problems in the past and have lost a lot of friends so the girls I hang out with now I don't really feel like I fit in with cause they come from totally different life styles as me and like my best friend she does drink but not with me cause I don't. And like they all go and hang out with other guys and stuff who drink but I don't like to hang out with all of them even when they don't drink because I don't want to be put in a situation where I'm around people who are partying and drinking. So mainly, I just sometimes feel like a loser/loner because I don't hang around those guys they hang around with or I don't party and drink. I know that I'm doing the right thing and in the end I'm the smart one for not doing that stuff, but at the same time its like my senior year and I just feel lonely sometimes cause I don't party and drink or have sex or whatever. And like I talk to my mom about it and she says that I'm doing the right thing and of course I am, and she says like find people who believe in the same things I do, people who don't party and drink like me. But then people will look at me weird if I just start hanging out with those types of people because there looked at as like the ';smart, nerd type'; but thats just how their labeled. So I don't know if this is all making since I'm trying to type it how I feel, but I don't if its coming out right. I just don't know what to do or how to act sometimes and feel out of place cause I'm kinda seen as like the ';pretty one'; so I think a lot of people and guys in my grade see me as someone who does party and drink. But if you can just give me your advice to my situation. I'd appreciate it. Everyones kinda always seen me as the loner, quiet one and so I'm just confused when it comes to this stuff, like theres so much drama I just stay away from and it makes me just want to graduate and go to college where they'll be people like me you know?
But anyways just give your imput if you could. Thanks!
-Serious answers only please-Urgentish! Please Help. Teen Advice!?
yeah i have a friend who is like that,
he doesnt drink around me but
yeah he is the type who goes out and parties..
and then my so called close friend is always
ditching me for her boyfriend.
so i'm always feeling lonely,
i am also a senior in high school.
and i do have friends who smoke and drink,
but i just dont do it cause i know how upsetmy mom would get.
i used to smoke but i quit,
i rather just focuse on my grades and graduate.
i would love to go to college.
sometimes i feel like moving away and starting all over again.
meeting new friends.
you should meet new friends
answer mine?
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