Monday, August 23, 2010

Pleaaase help, in need of some teen advice?

In one of my classes a sit in a group of guys. they are all my friends, and i like one of them. today he stole my glasses from me, so i leaned on his shoulders/chest to get them back. My teacher is usually nice but she then moved me to another table.





I really like this guy. class is the only time we talk aside from an occasional group-outing/MSN. i talked to my teacher after class asking if i could sit back there again and she said ';maybe, just as long as you start talking and flirting less'; and laughed so i think she meant yes. what should i do about this guy? what happens if she moves him? PLEASE help, what should i do?Pleaaase help, in need of some teen advice?
Obviously, if you two are going to date, you'll have to set aside time other than group-outings, MSN and class, so why not start now? Why wait until you're already dating to set aside social time with him? Start creating social time with him now, rather then waiting for dating to begin. That way, when you do begin dating, it wont seem odd.





Ask him to spend time with you outside of class, away from group-outings and MSN. That time together will begin as friends and will transition into dating, as you get to know one another. Talk to him about it before class, or on MSN. Don't talk to him about it during a group-outing though, because that could be an awkward conversation to have on a group-outing.





';I'm going to ____ movie/play/concert/party, and I'd really love if you'd join me. I really enjoy your company and I think we'd have a lot of fun together. Just me and you.'; That's not a question. You aren't asking him out. You are indicating interest and indicating that you have an active social life. You are asking to include him in that active social life. He doesn't have to make a decision, he just has to agree to join you. Even if he says no, he isn't saying no to you, he's just saying no to this one event, so you can always ask again and again. He's not turning you down. He's just turning this one event down. So, you're not actually being rejected. He may even say yes. Infact he's more likely to say yes, because he already likes you, at least as a friend.





Also, guys are more likely to say yes to a woman asking them out, then a woman is to a guy asking them out. Why? Women are asked-out more often then men are. Because men are asked-out so infrequently, they are more likely to accept offers, because it happens less often. When you combine that with the fact you're already friends, it's very likely he'll say yes.





Avoid flirting during class. It's just that simple. If you want to flirt, do it before and after class. It seems like your teacher is being a pretty good sport about this. She's been there. She knows what it's like, and she's willing to give you two a second chance. If she were your boss and you two were co-workers, it may not go as smoothly, so learn a life leason from this now, so you can avoid problems in the future.





Best of luck in life and love. :-)Pleaaase help, in need of some teen advice?
k don't freak don't tell him u like him this might sound crazy but tell his friends how u feel and then ask them if they know if he likes u





good luck
Sounds like you need to start seeing him outside of class then.
Try and tlk to him on msn or sumthin or u could tlk to him out of class


u no


get to no him a little better
if he doesnt know yet let him know you like him, give em your number if he doesnt have it yet.
girl get a life dnt be. dnt b so conceded.

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