Teen Advice Please?!?!?

Okies I'm 15 and I'm christian. Soo... theres this guy I really like and I';m planning to ask him out and kiss him before the end of the year.. are Christians allowed to kiss before marraige likeon the lips? Oh and what does spazz mean??Teen Advice Please?!?!?
Christians can make those choices for themselves. You can kiss before you get married, unless you both decide that you don't want to. The only major thing that Christians ';can't'; do before marriage is have sex.





Nowhere in the bible does it say anything remotely close to ';Thou shalt not kiss.';





A spazz is someone who acts ';spastic.'; Or unpredictably strange.Teen Advice Please?!?!?
Personally I don't think religion should have anything to do with either love or just dating in general. Its just how you feel with you and your beliefs. Some people wont even hold hands but others are in bed that very night.





Just ask yourself how comfortable you would be and if that goes against your beliefs.
Im a Christian too and I dont suggest you rush... I mean...your only 15....Slow down....you can get pregnant from kissing...okay so i know not literaly... but its what kissing can lead up too. Now i know what your thinkin'....I would never do that...that may be so but why take a chance. Also i dont think its actually a good idea to kiss at such an early age...id wait till your about...18 before you even think about it...At least you'd have a few more years to actually think about things and Talk to God about it. But to narrow down the question even more...Are you allow to kiss before marrige? Only when your Engaged or have been dating for a while. is it in the bible that you cant? No...However its Common knowlege that these are the only times its actually best to. For 2 reasons:





1: You dont get to far into a relationship that will be hard for you to back out of...





2: You dont know where his mouth has been...








I hope this helps.








What does Spaz mean?





If you are being a spazz it means: You are over reacting.








Irvine
Yes ....God won't strike you dead.....and spazz means to freak out or go ballistic.....plain english to start yelling at someone,or to be rude or obnoxious........One more thing.......Don't get into a spiritual debate over a innocent kiss!
Yeah, Christians are allowed to kiss on the lips. You can do pretty much everything except that which involves premarital sex.





A spazz (to my understanding) is someone who acts spastic, having spasms or tics or convulsions. The word is misused among people nowadays.
religion and sex /kiss have nothing in common
haha. yes, christians are allowed to kiss on the lips. just no sex and what not.





spazz is like a really hyper person who is all crazy and random.
mmm, I think they are, my friend is a strong Christian, and she's never said anything about it, she would have if that was an issue, and spaz, I don't know, but I know it's an insult.
As far as ';spazz'; goes, there are many defintions. Go to www.urbandictionary.com and you will find many definitions of that word.





And as far as kissing and being a Christan goes.....Kissing may seem innocent enough, but can often lead to other things very quickly.





If you have to kiss him, kiss him on the cheek if you must. But by being a Christian, that may violate some moral standards depending on what denomination you belong to.





My advice is go talk to your preacher/pastor/priest at your church. Be honest and accept thier feedback on this subject.
Christians are allowed to kiss. So don't worry about that. Spazz is like a geek. Or at least that's what people told me is what it meant after they called me that.
Dearest Teen,





YOU are the Christian, so you need to ask yourself if it's appropriate to kiss on the lips before marriage. No one could answer that for you, but yourself. Choose wisely for boys could be easily aroused.





I would advise you to speak to a trusted adult in the church to help advise you further. You will know when it's the right time with right person, because it will happen just like it does in the movies....perfectly!!
Yes...





They are.





I think that not kissing is taking too literal of an interpretation on the bible.





And spazz means crazy, hyper or that sort of thing.
ohhh im christian, but kiss is good to kiss.. just do what you please. There is nothing worried to be. Just believe yourself and believe in god. Just do what you want. There is nothing wrong.
I am christian too and i have one thing to say if want to kiss this guy you kiss him but no inside each other mouth action,OK.
spazz kinda means like crazy jumpy peranoyed in a nice way and it depends on how religious u r cause im christrian and 15 and iv kissed befor
I'm a teen christian to. It honesty depends on what you think is right and what you get from the Bible. Pray about it. Also make sure it's not just lust. One more thing talk to your parents to see what their standards are.