Im only 17 and i want a baby ughh any teen moms i need advice on how hard it is to take care of a new born?

I want one but I know I can't coz I'm. Too young plz give me reasons not to have one rite now I need to realize how hard it is I have unprotected sex all the time with my boyfriend I never get pregnant so I'm not worried but when I see babys it makes me want one what's hardest thing about teen pregnancy?,Im only 17 and i want a baby ughh any teen moms i need advice on how hard it is to take care of a new born?
Just because you don't get pregnant doesn't mean don't have unprotected sex! *Facepalm* Were you not paying attention in Sex Ed?!





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=]Im only 17 and i want a baby ughh any teen moms i need advice on how hard it is to take care of a new born?
Start using protection now!!! Or you will find out how hard it is. I am 29, having my first at 19, but even at that age it was difficult.


Even now at 29 it's still difficult. My baby is 4 months old.


If you really want to see how hard it is, go volunteer at a daycare in the infant section for a couple of days or if you know someone who has a newborn ask if you can stay the night so you will get the idea of how difficult it is. If you can stay the night you need to get up every time the baby gets up and stay awake with the mom or dad the whole time they are awake. A couple days of interrupted sleep will show you just a glimpse of how hard it is.


Crying, dirty diapers, the expense of having a baby. It's not cheap.
Do you realize how different your life will be if you have a child? You will have to mature very quickly. You will be responsible for that child for 18 years. Why don't you just relax and enjoy being young, and not having to have such a huge responsibility? You have PLENTY of time to have a child later. You're practically still a child yourself!





There are many difficult things about it. For one thing, many people will judge you harshly. It can be very difficult, like being sick and having nausea a lot, having back pains, and all the other crazy things that could happen during pregnancy. You probably don't have a home of your own, and won't for a while, and I doubt you have money to care for a child.





My advice is to chill out, get a cat or something, and buy some condoms. Have a baby later, and enjoy being young and a little more carefree while you can.
I fell pregnant at 17 and had my son at 18 and while I dont regret having him It was very very hard for me when he was a newborn. Honestly, I was sooooo tired I used to fall asleep on the couch holding him (I am lucky I didnt drop him!) He was awake all night crying and in the day I could never sleep even when he was cos I had bottles to wash and sterilize and baby clothes to wash and hang out. My friends stopped inviting me out and soon I never even heard from them at all, they just forgot about me because I wasnt ';fun'; anymore. I am 22 now and alot more grown up, I am expecting my 2nd bub in March. But please, just wait a few years before u decide to have a baby because it really is a life changing thing. U cant come and go as u please and I gaurantee if u have one this young ur friends will forget all about u. Wait till ur older!!
Just think how much harder school would be... how when you turn 18 you get to be free and have fun with your friends and then when you get to turn the big 21 you wont have any freedom you will have to be the responsible parent and you wont be able to go out an have a blast with your friends on the weekends ...it happened to my cousin she loves that baby but she kinda wishes she would have done things difftrently
ok i was 16 when i had my daughter i dropped out of school! and i will never regret having her but your still young. and you sacrifice a lot having a baby at a Young age like Honey im only 19 im gong on #3 you have to relay know you can do it ! if you want to talk about it more im hear and i have im yahoo..
life will become so much more difficult for you! and I don't know if you have just walked around a wal mart store lately, but take a look at the prices on baby things. Just because you will have showers, those things will get grown out of, or will run out quick. Even the cheapest formula is like 22 dollars, and then you will need diapers and everything. life will not be fun. Please use protection!!!
1st off you don't need one because its obvious you dont do well in school because you cant spell worth a damn which equals working at McDonalds forever. Secondly, regardless of age you arent married. Get married when you are 18 to a man with money THEN have your baby.
Do babysitting. It's like the work experience equivalent of being a mother, and you get paid.
the fact is, Babies are not dolls. Some kids just want babies to dress them up and show them off as a target of helping them (the parents) get more attention from on lookers, which is sad to them, but having a kid while being a teenager is not good.





You should be stable, have a job, earn an income, be happy.


Think about it in many years time to come. Who will you're child look up too. Some kids at their school might ask your child, what does your mummy do?'; Your child might reply in confusion, because your mummy (meaning you) does nothing. ';My mummy smokes all day and swears and pushes me in the pram whenever I want.'; That isn't a very good role model, especially when some of the other mother are hard working and responsible for their children. Now this is to the parents with a good background, At least they can rely on themselves to take care of their babies.


They don't need their mums or dad's help (for money etc) and they don't need help from the government.





You need to just be teenager. Finish doing everything first and then have a baby, trust me... Your kids will thank you for it! =)

Teen dating advice:how can i get him 2 be my boyfriend..please help?

there is this guy who like a lot and he flirt with me and he hugs me all the time.so how can i flirt with him so i can get him to ask me out please help including details please please pleaseTeen dating advice:how can i get him 2 be my boyfriend..please help?
Just ask him..';Do you wanna hangout sometime?'; or something. Try to make it sound casual. ;)Teen dating advice:how can i get him 2 be my boyfriend..please help?
You could tell him that you like him... I dont get why girls can say that they like a guy to his face. A guy doesnt have to be the one to ask the girl out...
it's simple............take off your clothes
if he flirts with you and hugs you just ask him out
say wanna go out with me?

I need teen relationship advice?

ok im 13 and i wanna do somethin for my bf if u kno wut i mean. not completly sex though. But idk if he wants to. how do i signal him that i want to. or something in the lines of that?


like say we went to the movies and i wanted to do it there?


Do you think he would let me?I need teen relationship advice?
you are 13. you shouldnt be messing around this early.

A teen needs help and valuable advice please im beggin u?

well im 16 male and im studyin math chem bio history. i have failed my mocks and hav exams in january. i look at my textbook and nothing gets absorbed. last year i did really well but these alevels are different. i feel so lazy. i have no motivation and i feel like im gona fail ma exams. why is this happening. plz helpA teen needs help and valuable advice please im beggin u?
Their are lots pf potential reasons for this. It could be that you have a mental block and are unable to concentrate. One solution is to take a 2 hour break each day and do something different. Physical effort like swimming, walking, running , gym will help.

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Teen in love in desperate need of advice any advice given is much appriciated?

how can i tell if a teen shy guy likes me still???? pls hav details and dont be too general im sooo clueless so PLS HELP METeen in love in desperate need of advice any advice given is much appriciated?
You need to post this in the Singles and Dating Category. Not in business and finance%26gt; Careers.Teen in love in desperate need of advice any advice given is much appriciated?
well how close are you with him? and have you guys talked? and has he given you any reason 2 think he might..like maybe lookin ur way ery now n then or wanting to talkn 2 u alot or jus a lil smile or anything?
Leave him alone.
Still? What happened?


How does he act to you?


Details Please.





PS. Good Luck!

Teen parents advice ?

me and my partner is barely 16


my partner is now 4 months


we r keepin it





any personal teen parents advice??





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me laosTeen parents advice ?
Get a job! Learn to use a condom next time! Keep it in your pants.Teen parents advice ?
STAY IN SCHOOL no matter what! that is the most important thing. and you should get a night job, and save save save! I just turned 18 and I was 17 when i gave birth to my now 7 month old daughter. Education and money are all you need to worry about till baby comes. trust me its not easy ever but having a good education and a good job by the time your little one gets here makes everything 10 times easier if you want, try to go to a charter school to try and graduate as soon as possible, that's what i did and graduated 2 months before i had my daughter, and try to be as nice as possible to your gf always remember being pregnant is NOT easy and she will be really emotional even after the baby comes. also if your parents are willing to help take it! don't take advantage but if they will watch the baby for an hour or so take it and sleep cause you'll need it! CONGRATS your going to love it but just remember its a lot of work.
Im not sure what youre talking about, but this may answer your question


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get a job, try and stay in school!





no kid likes feeling like they ruined their parents lives, STAY HAPPY! raise your kid the way YOU want, dont let parents influence everything
yor the ****** stupid ***** don't talk to me like this fat pussy

Teen pregnancy advice?

im only 13 and i have pregnancy symptoms like morning sickness and soreness of the tatas and im gaining a little more weight and i feel bloated all the time and if i buy a preggers test my parents are going to find out and idk where the clinics are in my area what should i doTeen pregnancy advice?
Hi :-) I'm 15 and pregnant and I can help you.


First of all, you should buy a pregnancy test. Have an older friend buy it for you or do it yourself. Go to some friend's house to have the test. You can also have it at home but you have to throw it away, so your parents won't see it. The house trash is not a good idea, as you can assume.


Second, if you are pregnant, you will have to go to the doctor and, sorry to say this but - you will have to tell your parents. They should know. At first they will be yelling, you know - ';bla-bla-bla...how could you do that...bla-bla-bla...grounded...';. That attitude will be over in a few weeks. Next, your parents will start making a room for the baby and advise you on raising a child. they may want to give the baby for adoption or even abort it. don't agree any of these! It's an awful feeling to kill your child and it's even awfuller to have it alive somewhere not knowing if someone cares for him/her or they are alone in the world.


Third - I'd like to be your friend and help you through all this. Feel free to email me if you need a friend in the same situation :-) My email is eeniemeen@yahoo.comTeen pregnancy advice?
Ignore that other post, she/he is an itiot.





You can got o the dollar store and buy a pregnancy test. They are accurate. You can also try a planned pregnancy center in your area. Go online and type in ';pregnancy testing in (your city goes here)'; and it will bring up results in your area. These places I don't think you need to have a parent with you. They can also help you with adoption if you choose to go that route. Hope i was at eats a little helpful :)
You can either get a pregnancy test, or wait to see if something comes out in 8-9 months. Either way sounds like you need to have a talk with your parents because there is no way a 13 yr old can handle it alone. If it's just a scare, then I would really consider halting the sex life until you're at an age where you can handle it. It's not a game.
Hun, going around unsure isn't going to help anything. If you think you may be pregnant, you need to get a test, see if you can go to a friends house so your parents won't find out. But if you are, they're going to have to know eventually. Once it's out in the open, it's a lot easier.





If you need to find a clinic, try going to the Plannned Parenthood website and searching your zip code.





If you need any more advise, there's a great site that helps teen parents. It's standupgirl.com. There's tons of great people to talk with, as well as lots of advise.
if you are pregnant you need to find out so you can get the care that both you and your baby needs, go to the doctors they are not allowed to tell your parents what is going on its patient confidentiality, but could it be your period, i had the same thing and tests showed up i wasnt pregnant,





good luck,
First of all, you shouldn't be here asking these type of questions, because you shouldn't be having SEX! You should be studying and doing homework. For goodness sakes you're only 13! You should really talk to your parents or to your counselor at school. Little girl you need help, no matter what decision you make, you need an adult (21%26amp;over) to help you out.
tell some one soon like ur mom i had a baby at 14 so i know how u feel but u need to take care of ur self and if ur preggers u need to take care of ur baby
DON'T get an abortaion its painful for u and it kills the baby u will never forgive yourself.....first....did u even have sex?? second ...tell ur parents!! they will prob be mad but they should be there for u if u are even pregnant