me and my partner is barely 16
my partner is now 4 months
we r keepin it
any personal teen parents advice??
p.s
baby is black japanese laos
partner blasian
me laosTeen parents advice ?
Get a job! Learn to use a condom next time! Keep it in your pants.Teen parents advice ?
STAY IN SCHOOL no matter what! that is the most important thing. and you should get a night job, and save save save! I just turned 18 and I was 17 when i gave birth to my now 7 month old daughter. Education and money are all you need to worry about till baby comes. trust me its not easy ever but having a good education and a good job by the time your little one gets here makes everything 10 times easier if you want, try to go to a charter school to try and graduate as soon as possible, that's what i did and graduated 2 months before i had my daughter, and try to be as nice as possible to your gf always remember being pregnant is NOT easy and she will be really emotional even after the baby comes. also if your parents are willing to help take it! don't take advantage but if they will watch the baby for an hour or so take it and sleep cause you'll need it! CONGRATS your going to love it but just remember its a lot of work.
Im not sure what youre talking about, but this may answer your question
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x42yqz
get a job, try and stay in school!
no kid likes feeling like they ruined their parents lives, STAY HAPPY! raise your kid the way YOU want, dont let parents influence everything
yor the ****** stupid ***** don't talk to me like this fat pussy
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Teen pregnancy advice?
im only 13 and i have pregnancy symptoms like morning sickness and soreness of the tatas and im gaining a little more weight and i feel bloated all the time and if i buy a preggers test my parents are going to find out and idk where the clinics are in my area what should i doTeen pregnancy advice?
Hi :-) I'm 15 and pregnant and I can help you.
First of all, you should buy a pregnancy test. Have an older friend buy it for you or do it yourself. Go to some friend's house to have the test. You can also have it at home but you have to throw it away, so your parents won't see it. The house trash is not a good idea, as you can assume.
Second, if you are pregnant, you will have to go to the doctor and, sorry to say this but - you will have to tell your parents. They should know. At first they will be yelling, you know - ';bla-bla-bla...how could you do that...bla-bla-bla...grounded...';. That attitude will be over in a few weeks. Next, your parents will start making a room for the baby and advise you on raising a child. they may want to give the baby for adoption or even abort it. don't agree any of these! It's an awful feeling to kill your child and it's even awfuller to have it alive somewhere not knowing if someone cares for him/her or they are alone in the world.
Third - I'd like to be your friend and help you through all this. Feel free to email me if you need a friend in the same situation :-) My email is eeniemeen@yahoo.comTeen pregnancy advice?
Ignore that other post, she/he is an itiot.
You can got o the dollar store and buy a pregnancy test. They are accurate. You can also try a planned pregnancy center in your area. Go online and type in ';pregnancy testing in (your city goes here)'; and it will bring up results in your area. These places I don't think you need to have a parent with you. They can also help you with adoption if you choose to go that route. Hope i was at eats a little helpful :)
You can either get a pregnancy test, or wait to see if something comes out in 8-9 months. Either way sounds like you need to have a talk with your parents because there is no way a 13 yr old can handle it alone. If it's just a scare, then I would really consider halting the sex life until you're at an age where you can handle it. It's not a game.
Hun, going around unsure isn't going to help anything. If you think you may be pregnant, you need to get a test, see if you can go to a friends house so your parents won't find out. But if you are, they're going to have to know eventually. Once it's out in the open, it's a lot easier.
If you need to find a clinic, try going to the Plannned Parenthood website and searching your zip code.
If you need any more advise, there's a great site that helps teen parents. It's standupgirl.com. There's tons of great people to talk with, as well as lots of advise.
if you are pregnant you need to find out so you can get the care that both you and your baby needs, go to the doctors they are not allowed to tell your parents what is going on its patient confidentiality, but could it be your period, i had the same thing and tests showed up i wasnt pregnant,
good luck,
First of all, you shouldn't be here asking these type of questions, because you shouldn't be having SEX! You should be studying and doing homework. For goodness sakes you're only 13! You should really talk to your parents or to your counselor at school. Little girl you need help, no matter what decision you make, you need an adult (21%26amp;over) to help you out.
tell some one soon like ur mom i had a baby at 14 so i know how u feel but u need to take care of ur self and if ur preggers u need to take care of ur baby
DON'T get an abortaion its painful for u and it kills the baby u will never forgive yourself.....first....did u even have sex?? second ...tell ur parents!! they will prob be mad but they should be there for u if u are even pregnant
Hi :-) I'm 15 and pregnant and I can help you.
First of all, you should buy a pregnancy test. Have an older friend buy it for you or do it yourself. Go to some friend's house to have the test. You can also have it at home but you have to throw it away, so your parents won't see it. The house trash is not a good idea, as you can assume.
Second, if you are pregnant, you will have to go to the doctor and, sorry to say this but - you will have to tell your parents. They should know. At first they will be yelling, you know - ';bla-bla-bla...how could you do that...bla-bla-bla...grounded...';. That attitude will be over in a few weeks. Next, your parents will start making a room for the baby and advise you on raising a child. they may want to give the baby for adoption or even abort it. don't agree any of these! It's an awful feeling to kill your child and it's even awfuller to have it alive somewhere not knowing if someone cares for him/her or they are alone in the world.
Third - I'd like to be your friend and help you through all this. Feel free to email me if you need a friend in the same situation :-) My email is eeniemeen@yahoo.comTeen pregnancy advice?
Ignore that other post, she/he is an itiot.
You can got o the dollar store and buy a pregnancy test. They are accurate. You can also try a planned pregnancy center in your area. Go online and type in ';pregnancy testing in (your city goes here)'; and it will bring up results in your area. These places I don't think you need to have a parent with you. They can also help you with adoption if you choose to go that route. Hope i was at eats a little helpful :)
You can either get a pregnancy test, or wait to see if something comes out in 8-9 months. Either way sounds like you need to have a talk with your parents because there is no way a 13 yr old can handle it alone. If it's just a scare, then I would really consider halting the sex life until you're at an age where you can handle it. It's not a game.
Hun, going around unsure isn't going to help anything. If you think you may be pregnant, you need to get a test, see if you can go to a friends house so your parents won't find out. But if you are, they're going to have to know eventually. Once it's out in the open, it's a lot easier.
If you need to find a clinic, try going to the Plannned Parenthood website and searching your zip code.
If you need any more advise, there's a great site that helps teen parents. It's standupgirl.com. There's tons of great people to talk with, as well as lots of advise.
if you are pregnant you need to find out so you can get the care that both you and your baby needs, go to the doctors they are not allowed to tell your parents what is going on its patient confidentiality, but could it be your period, i had the same thing and tests showed up i wasnt pregnant,
good luck,
First of all, you shouldn't be here asking these type of questions, because you shouldn't be having SEX! You should be studying and doing homework. For goodness sakes you're only 13! You should really talk to your parents or to your counselor at school. Little girl you need help, no matter what decision you make, you need an adult (21%26amp;over) to help you out.
tell some one soon like ur mom i had a baby at 14 so i know how u feel but u need to take care of ur self and if ur preggers u need to take care of ur baby
DON'T get an abortaion its painful for u and it kills the baby u will never forgive yourself.....first....did u even have sex?? second ...tell ur parents!! they will prob be mad but they should be there for u if u are even pregnant
Pre-teen needs musical audition advice and FAST!?
I'm a pre-teen, auditioning for an upcoming production of peter pan. It's in a few days, so I need some backup advice. First, any song suggestions? I'm a guy, not much a mutured voice yet, so not the deepest song. I don't like low and slow, so none of that please! And second, any Ideas for a monolouge? Any will do but I would like it to be comedic, if possible. Anybody that answers is a big help!Pre-teen needs musical audition advice and FAST!?
Star's answer for a song is probably your best choice. It's upbeat, and fun. If you were going for a slower song, I'd suggest ';Not While I'm Around'; from Sweeney Todd.
Monologue wise? Have you considered something classical like Romeo %26amp; Juliet? In my personal experience, directors love it when you use a classic-and challenge yourself.
Best of luck! :DPre-teen needs musical audition advice and FAST!?
I dont know about songs for you but for a monologue that is funny and very well established, you can do one of Puck's monologues from Midsummer nights Dream.
I Just Can't Wait to be King (Lion King) should work for your voice :)
Star's answer for a song is probably your best choice. It's upbeat, and fun. If you were going for a slower song, I'd suggest ';Not While I'm Around'; from Sweeney Todd.
Monologue wise? Have you considered something classical like Romeo %26amp; Juliet? In my personal experience, directors love it when you use a classic-and challenge yourself.
Best of luck! :DPre-teen needs musical audition advice and FAST!?
I dont know about songs for you but for a monologue that is funny and very well established, you can do one of Puck's monologues from Midsummer nights Dream.
I Just Can't Wait to be King (Lion King) should work for your voice :)
Monday, August 23, 2010
Has anyone adopted a teen? Any advice?
Has anyone adopted/fostered a troubled teen? Did you have other children? How did it affect the household? Any advice?Has anyone adopted a teen? Any advice?
Oh geez.
I stayed in a foster home as a teen and the family had 2 other children, younger than me. I was very troubled....but ';troubled'; means I was screaming out for someone to care, someone to set boundaries, someone to take an interest in me, and someone to ';parent me.';
When my foster parents set appropriate boundaries, ';taught me'; appropriate behaviors, encouraged me to respect myself and them, and took an interest in me, it all worked out. It took time, but they did not give up.
(Email me if you want some details about ways they parented a troubled teen.)
When you decide to foster children, you are not deciding to have children in your home who are perfect. Most foster kids come from traumatic backgrounds and respond 100% appropriately for what they have experienced. It's not easy, but if you apply appropriate parenting tools, it can be a joy to watch the changes.Has anyone adopted a teen? Any advice?
I can speak of my own experience but a close friend fostered teens some stayed a few weeks some months all of which troubled they have a 15 year old daughter which is Very well grounded although they have had some problems which is to be expected none of which made an impact to they re daughter. before they started to foster they asked her what she thought of it she was for it! they have also had some Very troubled teens one in particular with which they had great success with and became a part of the family even years later so it has its ups and its downs there is support and advice for the fostering agency so you re not on you re own you ll have a Case worker but my advice would be to insure you re children are happy with it and are settled in they re day to day living before you make a Major change good luck I think its a wonder full thing to be able to do giving a troubled child a good Home and a chance x x
Well mine was 10 when he came to live with me, just on the cusp of being a teen. We had a hard time for a while because he was so difficult, but I wouldn't change it for the world. He grew up in time and overcame most of his issues.
In the beginning I had to deal with a lot of drinking and disrespect, and some other things. He never stole from me, but one of his friends did.
Not all teens have major problems, though. Some of them take the other route and try to become the perfect child. It just all depends on the kid himself. Take the time to get to know him/her first.
Well, it wasn't an adoption or a fostering situation, but my VERY troubled teenage stepdaughter came to live with us for a short while last year and it was a nightmare. She consistently broke every rule we set for her (and we weren't expecting much from her; it was rules like ';no smoking'; and ';no drugs';), she flunked most of her classes at school, she lied constantly about EVERYTHING, she stole money from us, she gave her boyfriend chlamydia, she tried to convince my husband that he'd be better off if he left me, she stole money and jewelry from her BF's mother, she got grounded for skipping school and promptly ran off and stayed out all night, only to be brought home by the police the following morning, etc. etc. etc. When she declared that living with us was ';too hard'; and she had decided to move back with her mom, it was the happiest day of my life. A couple of days after she left, I discovered that she had stolen my son's wallet containing $160 (he was nine at the time; do you have any idea how long it takes a kid that age to save up that kind of money?). I understand that she had a really crappy upbringing (she was raised by her crazy mother, who prevented her from having any kind of relationship with her father, my husband), but a crappy upbringing doesn't excuse screwing over the ONLY people who want to help you and give you a chance at a better life, and definitely doesn't excuse stealing from your own little brother. She's not welcome here anymore, and if she does want to come and visit her father at some point, my four kids and I will vacate the premises until she's gone again. And of course I'll take any valuables with me for safekeeping, because she'll steal anything that's not red hot or nailed down.
Sorry to be such a downer, and I'm not saying your situation would turn out ANYTHING like ours, but make sure you're very aware of what you're getting yourself and your family into before you do this. I hope it works out for you.
We foster two teens and with one of the teens we had a child a yr younger. It was not detrimental to her.
If you have younger children in your home I would NOT take in teens.
My husband's mother adopted three teenage boys. It was great. They were happy and healthy and lived a better life than they had before.
Listen to Looney Tunes.
Oh geez.
I stayed in a foster home as a teen and the family had 2 other children, younger than me. I was very troubled....but ';troubled'; means I was screaming out for someone to care, someone to set boundaries, someone to take an interest in me, and someone to ';parent me.';
When my foster parents set appropriate boundaries, ';taught me'; appropriate behaviors, encouraged me to respect myself and them, and took an interest in me, it all worked out. It took time, but they did not give up.
(Email me if you want some details about ways they parented a troubled teen.)
When you decide to foster children, you are not deciding to have children in your home who are perfect. Most foster kids come from traumatic backgrounds and respond 100% appropriately for what they have experienced. It's not easy, but if you apply appropriate parenting tools, it can be a joy to watch the changes.Has anyone adopted a teen? Any advice?
I can speak of my own experience but a close friend fostered teens some stayed a few weeks some months all of which troubled they have a 15 year old daughter which is Very well grounded although they have had some problems which is to be expected none of which made an impact to they re daughter. before they started to foster they asked her what she thought of it she was for it! they have also had some Very troubled teens one in particular with which they had great success with and became a part of the family even years later so it has its ups and its downs there is support and advice for the fostering agency so you re not on you re own you ll have a Case worker but my advice would be to insure you re children are happy with it and are settled in they re day to day living before you make a Major change good luck I think its a wonder full thing to be able to do giving a troubled child a good Home and a chance x x
Well mine was 10 when he came to live with me, just on the cusp of being a teen. We had a hard time for a while because he was so difficult, but I wouldn't change it for the world. He grew up in time and overcame most of his issues.
In the beginning I had to deal with a lot of drinking and disrespect, and some other things. He never stole from me, but one of his friends did.
Not all teens have major problems, though. Some of them take the other route and try to become the perfect child. It just all depends on the kid himself. Take the time to get to know him/her first.
Well, it wasn't an adoption or a fostering situation, but my VERY troubled teenage stepdaughter came to live with us for a short while last year and it was a nightmare. She consistently broke every rule we set for her (and we weren't expecting much from her; it was rules like ';no smoking'; and ';no drugs';), she flunked most of her classes at school, she lied constantly about EVERYTHING, she stole money from us, she gave her boyfriend chlamydia, she tried to convince my husband that he'd be better off if he left me, she stole money and jewelry from her BF's mother, she got grounded for skipping school and promptly ran off and stayed out all night, only to be brought home by the police the following morning, etc. etc. etc. When she declared that living with us was ';too hard'; and she had decided to move back with her mom, it was the happiest day of my life. A couple of days after she left, I discovered that she had stolen my son's wallet containing $160 (he was nine at the time; do you have any idea how long it takes a kid that age to save up that kind of money?). I understand that she had a really crappy upbringing (she was raised by her crazy mother, who prevented her from having any kind of relationship with her father, my husband), but a crappy upbringing doesn't excuse screwing over the ONLY people who want to help you and give you a chance at a better life, and definitely doesn't excuse stealing from your own little brother. She's not welcome here anymore, and if she does want to come and visit her father at some point, my four kids and I will vacate the premises until she's gone again. And of course I'll take any valuables with me for safekeeping, because she'll steal anything that's not red hot or nailed down.
Sorry to be such a downer, and I'm not saying your situation would turn out ANYTHING like ours, but make sure you're very aware of what you're getting yourself and your family into before you do this. I hope it works out for you.
We foster two teens and with one of the teens we had a child a yr younger. It was not detrimental to her.
If you have younger children in your home I would NOT take in teens.
My husband's mother adopted three teenage boys. It was great. They were happy and healthy and lived a better life than they had before.
Listen to Looney Tunes.
Teen girl advice books?
All teen girls out there have any of you read one of those 'Guide to being a teen'; type books out there. ( by Kaz Cooke for example).
If you have, what did you think of them, specifically the language used to try and sound 'cool'.Teen girl advice books?
I'm cynical so I tended to dislike them but kudos to them for trying to help teens. As to your other question, the language was a bit corny in some of them but I do remember one that used humour in a really effective way which got the message across. Wish I could remember the name of it...blush
If you have, what did you think of them, specifically the language used to try and sound 'cool'.Teen girl advice books?
I'm cynical so I tended to dislike them but kudos to them for trying to help teens. As to your other question, the language was a bit corny in some of them but I do remember one that used humour in a really effective way which got the message across. Wish I could remember the name of it...
Teen needs advice! on weight loss?
I work out 30mins a day on the treadmill and i still can't lose a pound. What should I do? My weight is 200 and my height is 5 foot 3 inches. Help MeTeen needs advice! on weight loss?
the first 20-30min of cardio body burns carbs and only then starts burning fat so you should do 45min 4-6 times a week and combine it with light weight training.
find calorie/fitness calculator on the net, enter all your stats and it will tell you how many calories you need a day to maintain, take off 300-400cal off that number and thats how much you need to lose.
eat 5-6 small meals a day (eat every 2-3 hours)
5-8 servings of fruit and veggies a day
8 glasses of water
have complex carbs for breakfast - they give you energy
have lean meat (protein) for dinner - repairs muscle
dont consume foods that are made of white flour (white bread, cakes, past etc.), sugar loaded foods (cookies, icecream, candy etc) and nothing fried, oily.
ofcourse you can spoil yourself once in a while with a little treat:)Teen needs advice! on weight loss?
Try not to eat anything startchy (Bread, crackers, noodles, rice, etc.) after lunch time. I did that - cut out startchy carbs after lunch and lost a bit of weight and did not go hungry. :=) Best of luck to you!
Just eat foods sparingly. Still eat the things you like but in proportions .
eat foods with less calories and always watch what you eat. and try maybe excersising for an hour instead.
what you eat is more then 70% of what you look like. you need to start a diet, look up some diets, dont just not eat cuase thats even worse for you.
Try dance dance revolution on workout mode.
It's a very fun way to be active. =]
Work out for more than 30 minutes. You won't start burning fat until you're walking for at least 30 minutes. Try substituting water for your usual drinks. Go for 500 - 1000 calorie cutting a day. Thats 1-2 lbs weekly. Results won't come quickly but they'll come.
start early in the morning then dont eat until an hour and 15 minutes later.. speaking mainly cardio/aerobics.. you should work for 40 minutes to an hour..
the first 20-30min of cardio body burns carbs and only then starts burning fat so you should do 45min 4-6 times a week and combine it with light weight training.
find calorie/fitness calculator on the net, enter all your stats and it will tell you how many calories you need a day to maintain, take off 300-400cal off that number and thats how much you need to lose.
eat 5-6 small meals a day (eat every 2-3 hours)
5-8 servings of fruit and veggies a day
8 glasses of water
have complex carbs for breakfast - they give you energy
have lean meat (protein) for dinner - repairs muscle
dont consume foods that are made of white flour (white bread, cakes, past etc.), sugar loaded foods (cookies, icecream, candy etc) and nothing fried, oily.
ofcourse you can spoil yourself once in a while with a little treat:)Teen needs advice! on weight loss?
Try not to eat anything startchy (Bread, crackers, noodles, rice, etc.) after lunch time. I did that - cut out startchy carbs after lunch and lost a bit of weight and did not go hungry. :=) Best of luck to you!
Just eat foods sparingly. Still eat the things you like but in proportions .
eat foods with less calories and always watch what you eat. and try maybe excersising for an hour instead.
what you eat is more then 70% of what you look like. you need to start a diet, look up some diets, dont just not eat cuase thats even worse for you.
Try dance dance revolution on workout mode.
It's a very fun way to be active. =]
Work out for more than 30 minutes. You won't start burning fat until you're walking for at least 30 minutes. Try substituting water for your usual drinks. Go for 500 - 1000 calorie cutting a day. Thats 1-2 lbs weekly. Results won't come quickly but they'll come.
start early in the morning then dont eat until an hour and 15 minutes later.. speaking mainly cardio/aerobics.. you should work for 40 minutes to an hour..
What words of advice would you have for a teen who is facing parenthood?
need some help, cant think of any right nowWhat words of advice would you have for a teen who is facing parenthood?
Keep your head high, don't let others get to you, and you can do whatever you want in life if you put your heart and mind to it.What words of advice would you have for a teen who is facing parenthood?
Dont listen to what other people tell you about being too young to be a good mother...prove them wrong
Implore her to put the kid up for adoption. Children have the best chance when they have two parents who were expecting them and are fully prepared to do everything they can to see that the kid is raised in a loving home.
Don't let there
be a next time!!
Good luck (laughs).
As a new mom (no matter what your age) you get a lot of ';hand patting, you're just over reacting';. If you truly feel something is wrong with you or your child and your/child's Dr. won't do anything, go to another Dr.
it's going to be very very hard. most teen who get pregnant and want to keep their babies think it's going to be easy to take cares of a child because they have babysat for years and helped take care of their younger brothers and sisters. however, taking care of your own children is completely different. it's hard enough when you are actually older, stable, and have a husband to help you. let alone when you are doing it underaged and by yourself.
'; How much are those condoms, please miss'; - then it wouldn't have happened !
why did you have sex in the first place?
you shoould be asking about high school classes and prom.
1. Continue with your education. It is the way to a better life for you and your baby.
2. Try to stay with the baby's father. Notice I didn't say marry him-only do that if you were going to anyhow. However, dad has a right to see his child, and he can be a source of financial support. Your child has a right to know his father.
3. Have a life of your own. Try to go out for a few hours a week. Leave the baby with dad, your parents, or a babysitter. It will help you be a better parent.
4. READ TO YOUR CHILD! I cannot stress this enough.
DON'T GIVE WAY TO EVERY ADULT THAT THINKS THEY KNOW MORE THEN A 'STUPID TEENAGER'! Raise your child the way you see best and don't let others pressure into doing things you don't want to do. Age doesn't always make you smarter.
Be responsible for your actions, treat your child like you would like to grow up. Learn from your mistakes and teach others, don't be pushed around by people that think they know more than you.
I would tell a teen the following:
It's going to be hard. You will have to be stronger than most mothers. You will be frowned at by many people because you are young. Some people are just very judgemental. Keep your head high. Always follow your instincts and never let anybody get you down. You are a wonderful person for facing this problem face on, and you will make an excellent mother as long as you love your child and give him/her the best life anybody possibly could.
Keep your head high, don't let others get to you, and you can do whatever you want in life if you put your heart and mind to it.What words of advice would you have for a teen who is facing parenthood?
Dont listen to what other people tell you about being too young to be a good mother...prove them wrong
Implore her to put the kid up for adoption. Children have the best chance when they have two parents who were expecting them and are fully prepared to do everything they can to see that the kid is raised in a loving home.
Don't let there
be a next time!!
Good luck (laughs).
As a new mom (no matter what your age) you get a lot of ';hand patting, you're just over reacting';. If you truly feel something is wrong with you or your child and your/child's Dr. won't do anything, go to another Dr.
it's going to be very very hard. most teen who get pregnant and want to keep their babies think it's going to be easy to take cares of a child because they have babysat for years and helped take care of their younger brothers and sisters. however, taking care of your own children is completely different. it's hard enough when you are actually older, stable, and have a husband to help you. let alone when you are doing it underaged and by yourself.
'; How much are those condoms, please miss'; - then it wouldn't have happened !
why did you have sex in the first place?
you shoould be asking about high school classes and prom.
1. Continue with your education. It is the way to a better life for you and your baby.
2. Try to stay with the baby's father. Notice I didn't say marry him-only do that if you were going to anyhow. However, dad has a right to see his child, and he can be a source of financial support. Your child has a right to know his father.
3. Have a life of your own. Try to go out for a few hours a week. Leave the baby with dad, your parents, or a babysitter. It will help you be a better parent.
4. READ TO YOUR CHILD! I cannot stress this enough.
DON'T GIVE WAY TO EVERY ADULT THAT THINKS THEY KNOW MORE THEN A 'STUPID TEENAGER'! Raise your child the way you see best and don't let others pressure into doing things you don't want to do. Age doesn't always make you smarter.
Be responsible for your actions, treat your child like you would like to grow up. Learn from your mistakes and teach others, don't be pushed around by people that think they know more than you.
I would tell a teen the following:
It's going to be hard. You will have to be stronger than most mothers. You will be frowned at by many people because you are young. Some people are just very judgemental. Keep your head high. Always follow your instincts and never let anybody get you down. You are a wonderful person for facing this problem face on, and you will make an excellent mother as long as you love your child and give him/her the best life anybody possibly could.
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